By Dove
We have been told that the highest frequency we can hold is that of unconditional love, but I have been studying lately, and I am now pretty sure that the highest frequency you can hold is that of being authentically yourself. You may ask, “How can I make such a statement?” When you authentically love yourself, you are not afraid to let people see who you are; you don’t worry if they accept you because you accept yourself. When you truly know yourself well enough to trust who you are and be who you are in all circumstances, you have come to a place of self-love. This is essential if you want to find your greatest joy in life because you are the only one who can give you the gift of self-love. When you accept yourself, you are on a pathway to the greatest adventure in life because it is safe to be you. You are a completely unique creation from God, Source, and there is no one else like you. Take a deep breath and breathe that in. When you love yourself unconditionally, you are loving God, Source, with the same energy. The other blessing is that you carry a frequency of acceptance, which is so beautiful. In being authentically who you are, you give everyone else around you permission to love themselves. All you have to do is hold that frequency and it will radiate around your whole being, encasing you in an environment of love. Everyone wants to feel that energy and you stand as a beacon of that energy. What a gift. It has nothing to do with ego or being better than, it is truly being the unique person you are without worrying if you have offended someone. Just be who you are and those that can experience your special vibration will love to be around you; those that can’t will drift away. It’s like two magnets coming together, drawn to each other because of a similar charge. Not everyone will be ready to hold this type of energy but you can love them and let them go their way. There is a passage in the Bible that states something like, if God is for me, who can possibly be against me? I challenge you to throw away the values you use to assess yourself. It’s not what you look like or what you drive, or where you live. It is you naked and brave saying I love me just as I am and I want everyone else to feel this acceptance. This means you have to let go of all the examples society says you must follow and, yes, it is okay to wear your socks with your Tevas if you choose. As I celebrate 61 years of marriage to someone who has learned to love me completely, I have learned to love me as I am, and it took a lot of work because we were so different. Each morning we get up and we shout to our house, our guardian angels and each other, “I love you! I love you! I love you!” Give it a try. It really changes your life. And if there is only you, look in the mirror and declare your love to self. Blessings, Dove
