{"id":15846,"date":"2021-04-07T01:10:41","date_gmt":"2021-04-07T01:10:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/?p=15846"},"modified":"2021-04-12T23:37:50","modified_gmt":"2021-04-12T23:37:50","slug":"slings-and-arrows","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/index.php\/2021\/04\/07\/slings-and-arrows\/","title":{"rendered":"Slings And Arrows"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><strong><span class=\"s1\"><i>Valley reels from 3 high-profile suicides in just 6 months<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>By Eric Valentine<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-15849\" src=\"https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Original-size-Crisis-Hotline-Idaho-Logo-195x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"195\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Original-size-Crisis-Hotline-Idaho-Logo-195x300.jpg 195w, https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Original-size-Crisis-Hotline-Idaho-Logo-664x1024.jpg 664w, https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Original-size-Crisis-Hotline-Idaho-Logo-150x231.jpg 150w, https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Original-size-Crisis-Hotline-Idaho-Logo-300x463.jpg 300w, https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Original-size-Crisis-Hotline-Idaho-Logo-696x1073.jpg 696w, https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Original-size-Crisis-Hotline-Idaho-Logo-272x420.jpg 272w, https:\/\/woodriverweekly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Original-size-Crisis-Hotline-Idaho-Logo.jpg 756w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 195px) 100vw, 195px\" \/>It\u2019s one of those things during the pandemic that health experts have also been warning us about. As we isolate to try to protect ourselves against a potentially deadly novel virus, do we open ourselves up to other epidemics at times equally fatal; specifically, issues like domestic violence and suicide, which in isolation can fester and sometimes even intertwine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">In just the last six months, Valley residents have witnessed three higher-profile suicide incidents. In October of last year, Jared Murphy\u2014a former Hailey police officer and Bellevue mayoral candidate\u2014allegedly shot and killed a former girlfriend before ending his own life inside the Bellevue coffee shop where she worked. The Blaine County Prosecutor released Idaho State Police investigators\u2019 findings last week declaring the incident was murder-suicide.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">And then, within one two-day period at the end of last month, two more suicides sent Valley residents emotionally reeling. Stephen Begley, 64, of Hailey, had struck Sarah Cardella, 42, of Boise, with his Subaru Outback when she was walking westbound in the south crosswalk of Maple and Main streets with her husband and dog, March 25. Begley exited his vehicle, observed what happened, and then sat back down in the driver\u2019s seat and took his own life by an apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head, Hailey Police Chief Steve England confirmed in a statement. Cardella was transported to the Wood River St. Luke\u2019s hospital by ambulance, and the injuries she sustained were non-life-threatening. Cardella\u2019s husband and dog did not sustain any physical injury.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">\u201cWe know Begley was talking on his cellular phone at the time of the collision and the case is still pending Begley\u2019s toxicology results,\u201d England said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\"><span class=\"s1\">On March 26, Johnny Richard Hood, 50, apparently took his own life. Hood was known by friends and family as \u201cRico\u201d and was a popular musician around town, performing solo, in bands, and while hosting open mic nights in Bellevue and Hailey, too. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">\u201cRico was a good friend, open and supportive. His contribution to the musical culture in our valley was profound. I\u2019m personally devastated by his passing and shall miss him greatly,\u201d wrote Bellevue resident John Marsh on Hood\u2019s memory wall on the Wood River Chapel website.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><b>\u201cPost-vention\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">While it may feel like the stories just described are over, Tammy Davis is trying to raise awareness that after suicide is when certain work begins. Davis is the executive director of the Crisis Hotline Idaho. She explained that suicide prevention needs to occur before someone takes their life and after, so that a community can heal and learn everything from new coping mechanisms to how to spot a potential mental health issue in friends, family and other loved ones.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">Across the country, there are awareness campaigns focused on knowing the five signs of emotional pain. They are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"p6\">Personality changes<\/li>\n<li class=\"p6\">Uncharacteristically angry, anxious, agitated, or moody<\/li>\n<li class=\"p6\">Withdrawal or isolation from other people<\/li>\n<li class=\"p6\">Neglect of self-care and engagement in risky behavior<\/li>\n<li class=\"p6\">Being overcome with hopelessness and overwhelmed by circumstances<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p4\">\u201cWe can\u2019t take the approach that we don\u2019t know everything or it\u2019s not our business or there\u2019s nothing we can do about it,\u201d explained Davis. \u201cWe can do something about it. There are many resources out there people don\u2019t even know about.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">Specifically, Davis points to organizations like NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness), St. Luke\u2019s, and the South Central Public Health District who team up to offer funding for therapy, support groups, and programs like Recovery In Motion which provides peer support for people in between therapy sessions and\/or support group meetings.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">\u201cIt\u2019s important to have support during those in-between times, when things might not be OK,\u201d Davis said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">Davis said that compared to 2018-19, calls into her helpline have gone up 200% and are still climbing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">\u201cThat shows us the community can be aware and they want to do something,\u201d Davis said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><b>Alternative Paths<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">Kathryn Grohusky is the executive director of The Sawtooth Society, which several years ago began a program inspired by Austin Kraal and his family. Kraal ended his life in 2011 at the age of 26. His legacy lives on through his parents\u2019 support and funding of <a href=\"https:\/\/sawtoothsociety.org\/2013\/05\/17\/austin-kraal-memorial\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Sawtooth Society\u2019s Austin Kraal Memorial Volunteer Program<\/a>. Every summer, important on-the-ground projects like trail maintenance and restoration are completed in partnership with the U.S. Forest Service. Individuals, schools, businesses, and religious organizations who want to volunteer can help maintain 150 miles of roads and trails alongside professional Project Leaders.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">To date, the program has accomplished a great deal, having logged over 10,500 volunteer hours. Since the program first began in 2013, youth, ages 10 to 18, have been a key component in reaching those goals. It is estimated that over 500 youth have assisted with various Austin Kraal memorial projects throughout the Sawtooth National Recreation Area.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">\u201cThis outdoor program can create a positive outcome for someone else experiencing anxiety or other mental health challenges while supporting the land Austin loved so much,\u201d said Kevin Kraal, Austin\u2019s father. \u201cThat\u2019s what we want for our son\u2019s legacy: for others to get outdoors, to help take care of trails, and to feel the restorative power of nature. It can heal you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">For Grohusky, time spent earlier in her career in Colorado has come full circle. For several years when she worked for the coroner\u2019s office there, Grohusky was involved with survivor support for those affected by suicide. Her biggest takeaway from that experience was how many ways people can offer support, but don\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">\u201cOffer ways you can actually help someone,\u201d Grohusky said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">For instance, don\u2019t tell someone who is grieving a loss, \u201cJust let me know what I can do.\u201d Instead, offer them something specific, such as, \u201cLet me bring dinner to you tomorrow night. Will you be home?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">\u201cJust offer that nonjudgmental support you would if someone died from a heart attack,\u201d Grohusky said. \u201cBereavement is bereavement.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><b>A CIRCLE OF HELP<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">\u2022 National Suicide Prevention Hotline<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u200b24\/7, free and confidential support<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">800-273-TALK (8255)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>\u2022 Idaho Suicide Prevention Hotline<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Crisis intervention, emotional support, problem solving and referrals to local resources <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Call or Text: 208-398-4357 <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>\u2022 Crisis Text Line<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Free, 24\/7, confidential. Text \u201cHOME\u201d to 741741<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>\u2022 American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP)<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Understanding and preventing suicide through research, education, and advocacy<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">www.afsp.com<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Valley reels from 3 high-profile suicides in just 6 months By Eric Valentine It\u2019s one of those things during the pandemic that health experts have also been warning us about. 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